Sunday night, time being before 9pm, i found myself one of a handful of customers at walas. I hadn't expected that kind of crowd. But now i know.
Jo saw me - it's hard to not catch her attention - and i waved at her, before taking a seat at the other side away from the speakers. Good thing i managed to catch her in action - three songs, to be exact - before the band called it a day.
I have to agree with Tamk and W. It's absolutely wonderful now that walas has turned smoke-free. No more feeling like im in a smoke chamber. I can now enjoy a beer and the band in a smoke-free environment. Lovely!
Looking at the kwongs, I couldn't help but feel a little envious. Really, i've never seen any siblings hang out at a pub together. And they were so at ease in one another's company. When i asked D why she didn't want to go overseas for her studies, Tamk and W both cried out before she could utter a word. 'B'coz she's a baby!' The spontaneity of their response carried warmth and showed the level of closeness the sibilings share. Tamk said it half-smiling as she mimicked the cradling movement; W, like many an elder brother, spoke in a half-reproachful-half-resigned tone that only a concerned brother would.
Meanwhile, Jo's friend, Brian seemed to think that all of us at the table are only related to one another as friends. Introducing himself as Jo's fuck-buddy (at which point Jo would roll her eyes in helpless protest), he was very friendly and always smiling. At one point, he started going into some technical description of computers. But no, his line of work is far from dealing with 'hardware'. I was quite surprised to learn of his job, especially since he's working in Down Under.
If Jo starts performing regularly, perhaps i will find myself at walas more frequently - and getting two beers for the price of one. Coz, well, the set starts before 9pm. :)
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Monday, July 30, 2007
July 28 Ride
Thankfully the weather was clear when we started the ride in the morning. Had it been raining, the trip probably wouldn't have materialised. (And perhaps K would have been content to go back to sleep!)
It did rain eventually, but only for the final stretch of 20km. By then each of us had covered a minimum decent 100km. I had been half hopeful that the impending rain might hold off till we reach our destination. But just like I've never won a single lucky draw my entire life, my hope was destined to bear no fruits.
The rain finally came, and it hit us with all the ferocious might Heaven could muster. I could barely see the road ahead as the relentless rain assaulted my face - and my glasses. And the headwind - it slowed Kenneth and I to a horrible crawl as we laboured uphill.
Yes, I did feel a little disappointed that we could not beat the rain to reach Sebana dry. But I knew i really could not ask for more. We started the ride with very good weather, and the rain - which was really just a matter of time - only came after our last rest-stop. After a while i felt refreshed cycling in the torrential rain. And I was glad that i wasn't cycling alone in the harsh weather, but had Kennethh's company: I felt that much safer and confident riding alongside and behind him (most of the time it was the latter). I remember telling him that it felt like we were doing some epic ride, two of us riding out a storm in a space so vast we were but two insignificant beings.
By comparison, Group 2 comprising of Mr Armstrong Jon himself and himself was way ahead of us. He might just be able to surge fast enough to exit the rain zone, except that I think the rain zone covered every plausible overland. Not that he needed a reason to cycle fast, but i'm sure the heavy rain gave an added impetus.
Quite unexpectedly, the best part of the ride came in the second day morning, when we did a leisurely ride in Sebana. Jon was in his complete cycling gear while Kenneth and I were in casual clothes, slippers included. K, as expected, was still in bed. (Later he refused to believe that we were out cycling in the morning!)
We probably cycled for about an hour, and what a most wonderful time it was! Besides venturing into a couple of small roads (only to find ourselves at a dead end) we also reached the opposite side of the river. We even took photos at the helipad, before riding down the meandering track. When the end seemed nowhere in sight, we turned back. The road now meanders in the opposite direction, and i challenged myself to recognise the turning points which i only passed through not long ago. I guess when one cycles slowly in the quiet countryside, one tends to find little mental tasks to occupy the mind. One also tends to become contemplative, for Man seems given to introspection often when in relative solitude.
It was all very leisurely and peaceful, cycling in the morning past stretches of unbroken foliage. One pedals on lightly, and before long the pedalling takes on a momentum that seems to keep one going on and on without consciousness of movement. Jon was cycling without his jersey, and that prompted Kenneth to remark how he's risking greater body exposure to pesky (aedes) mosquitoes. Well, Jon might well have replied that his velocity makes it a tall order for a mosquito to settle on him, much less suck his blood.
It's a different kind of enjoyment when the ride goes deliberately slow and relaxing, as compared to when one cycles with purpose on the road towards a known finality. (In the latter, one tends to ride fast and the sense of enjoyment doesn't quite come through on the go.) When one cycles slow amidst quiet surroundings, with no notion of destination in mind, one is less preoccupied with cycling. There's time to take in the tranquil sights and sounds, which, together with the sense of freedom that cycling inherently affords the rider, leave one feeling rejuvenated. That morning, i quietly savoured the process of slow riding: the smell of raw vegetation, the spaciousness of the place, the absence of crowds and enveloping bulidngs. For that brief period, time and other worldly concerns eluded my mind.
All of us grow older, but a few, a rare few, grow younger. The night before, K was officially elevated to that ripe old age of 21. He's right; the joke never ends. And why should it? Most people would love to be made the joke! And somehow, the joke never feels stale coming from Jon, who perpetually rolls out one hilarious punch line after another. ("Giraffe," he termed the broadcaster who didn't seem to have such a long neck till he uttered the word.) And thus marked the second night in a three-week long celebrations befitting of a young man who has come of age.
It did rain eventually, but only for the final stretch of 20km. By then each of us had covered a minimum decent 100km. I had been half hopeful that the impending rain might hold off till we reach our destination. But just like I've never won a single lucky draw my entire life, my hope was destined to bear no fruits.
The rain finally came, and it hit us with all the ferocious might Heaven could muster. I could barely see the road ahead as the relentless rain assaulted my face - and my glasses. And the headwind - it slowed Kenneth and I to a horrible crawl as we laboured uphill.
Yes, I did feel a little disappointed that we could not beat the rain to reach Sebana dry. But I knew i really could not ask for more. We started the ride with very good weather, and the rain - which was really just a matter of time - only came after our last rest-stop. After a while i felt refreshed cycling in the torrential rain. And I was glad that i wasn't cycling alone in the harsh weather, but had Kennethh's company: I felt that much safer and confident riding alongside and behind him (most of the time it was the latter). I remember telling him that it felt like we were doing some epic ride, two of us riding out a storm in a space so vast we were but two insignificant beings.
By comparison, Group 2 comprising of Mr Armstrong Jon himself and himself was way ahead of us. He might just be able to surge fast enough to exit the rain zone, except that I think the rain zone covered every plausible overland. Not that he needed a reason to cycle fast, but i'm sure the heavy rain gave an added impetus.
Quite unexpectedly, the best part of the ride came in the second day morning, when we did a leisurely ride in Sebana. Jon was in his complete cycling gear while Kenneth and I were in casual clothes, slippers included. K, as expected, was still in bed. (Later he refused to believe that we were out cycling in the morning!)
We probably cycled for about an hour, and what a most wonderful time it was! Besides venturing into a couple of small roads (only to find ourselves at a dead end) we also reached the opposite side of the river. We even took photos at the helipad, before riding down the meandering track. When the end seemed nowhere in sight, we turned back. The road now meanders in the opposite direction, and i challenged myself to recognise the turning points which i only passed through not long ago. I guess when one cycles slowly in the quiet countryside, one tends to find little mental tasks to occupy the mind. One also tends to become contemplative, for Man seems given to introspection often when in relative solitude.
It was all very leisurely and peaceful, cycling in the morning past stretches of unbroken foliage. One pedals on lightly, and before long the pedalling takes on a momentum that seems to keep one going on and on without consciousness of movement. Jon was cycling without his jersey, and that prompted Kenneth to remark how he's risking greater body exposure to pesky (aedes) mosquitoes. Well, Jon might well have replied that his velocity makes it a tall order for a mosquito to settle on him, much less suck his blood.
It's a different kind of enjoyment when the ride goes deliberately slow and relaxing, as compared to when one cycles with purpose on the road towards a known finality. (In the latter, one tends to ride fast and the sense of enjoyment doesn't quite come through on the go.) When one cycles slow amidst quiet surroundings, with no notion of destination in mind, one is less preoccupied with cycling. There's time to take in the tranquil sights and sounds, which, together with the sense of freedom that cycling inherently affords the rider, leave one feeling rejuvenated. That morning, i quietly savoured the process of slow riding: the smell of raw vegetation, the spaciousness of the place, the absence of crowds and enveloping bulidngs. For that brief period, time and other worldly concerns eluded my mind.
All of us grow older, but a few, a rare few, grow younger. The night before, K was officially elevated to that ripe old age of 21. He's right; the joke never ends. And why should it? Most people would love to be made the joke! And somehow, the joke never feels stale coming from Jon, who perpetually rolls out one hilarious punch line after another. ("Giraffe," he termed the broadcaster who didn't seem to have such a long neck till he uttered the word.) And thus marked the second night in a three-week long celebrations befitting of a young man who has come of age.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
After a week's absence, I returned to office today with much dread. It must be a sign that this place isn't where i belong; not in the long run definitely.
After work, i took the train and alighted at Orchard station. I was determined to buy a book from Kino, never mind that i have so many books that i'm barely half-way through with reading. And buy a book i did. A non-fiction. I was tempted to get more, but it would be imprudent to spend more than i can finish reading the books. Regardless, i made a mental list of the titles that i'm going to get the next time - when they dangle the 20% or 30% discount.
Note to self: National Day is some two weeks away. There will be discounts offered by the big bookstores. Action beckons.
Because I wanted to visit Muji, i decided to walk over to Paragon. The shirts there are on sale, but the only ones left are the XL-sized. That's as good as saying all shirts are sold out.
I took the lift to the basement, my slightly rumbling stomach urging me to sniff out food. But instead of munchies, I was drawn by the music playing at That CD Shop. The A female singer was singing; her voice had a pristine quality, very serene and easy on the ears. I walked into the store, half-browsing and pretending to be looking for a CD, when in actual fact i was just there to enjoy the music.
Perhaps it is late already so they are playing soft and relaxing music. Not a few people walked into the store asking for the CD that is being played.
Starbucks is just across the music store, i realised. No wonder its patrons all seem so comfortable in their seats, as though they plan to while the night away.
Now I know where to go and chill over coffee at this hour the next time i am in town with friends.
After work, i took the train and alighted at Orchard station. I was determined to buy a book from Kino, never mind that i have so many books that i'm barely half-way through with reading. And buy a book i did. A non-fiction. I was tempted to get more, but it would be imprudent to spend more than i can finish reading the books. Regardless, i made a mental list of the titles that i'm going to get the next time - when they dangle the 20% or 30% discount.
Note to self: National Day is some two weeks away. There will be discounts offered by the big bookstores. Action beckons.
Because I wanted to visit Muji, i decided to walk over to Paragon. The shirts there are on sale, but the only ones left are the XL-sized. That's as good as saying all shirts are sold out.
I took the lift to the basement, my slightly rumbling stomach urging me to sniff out food. But instead of munchies, I was drawn by the music playing at That CD Shop. The A female singer was singing; her voice had a pristine quality, very serene and easy on the ears. I walked into the store, half-browsing and pretending to be looking for a CD, when in actual fact i was just there to enjoy the music.
Perhaps it is late already so they are playing soft and relaxing music. Not a few people walked into the store asking for the CD that is being played.
Starbucks is just across the music store, i realised. No wonder its patrons all seem so comfortable in their seats, as though they plan to while the night away.
Now I know where to go and chill over coffee at this hour the next time i am in town with friends.
Saturday, July 21, 2007
Like the CO said, all of us are in different stages of life when we come back for reservist every year.
It's true. From being an undergrad when we had our first ICT to having graduated and started on the first job in the recent one, we are all moving on in different directions - albeit on the same broad trajectory called Life. Some of the guys have been working since they ORD, some have gone for further studies, while some have married.
But some things don't change. No matter how much we've aged, we still banter irreverently, as most guys do when they are by themselves. We make harmless but silly jokes at one another's expense, and we lament about the inefficiency of the army and the aimlessness of doing innumerous silly tasks.
And this is just one example of how NS men cope with the unpleasantness of training. We talk cock. Plently of cock talk. But at times, many of us also had serious discussions: about future plans, about unfortunate personal problems or dilemmas.
It's true. From being an undergrad when we had our first ICT to having graduated and started on the first job in the recent one, we are all moving on in different directions - albeit on the same broad trajectory called Life. Some of the guys have been working since they ORD, some have gone for further studies, while some have married.
But some things don't change. No matter how much we've aged, we still banter irreverently, as most guys do when they are by themselves. We make harmless but silly jokes at one another's expense, and we lament about the inefficiency of the army and the aimlessness of doing innumerous silly tasks.
And this is just one example of how NS men cope with the unpleasantness of training. We talk cock. Plently of cock talk. But at times, many of us also had serious discussions: about future plans, about unfortunate personal problems or dilemmas.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
it will come to fruition!
Since that wonderful weekend that i blogged about previously, it's been one hell of a busy period for me. I'm still sane, but i suspect my mind is drained and my body is atrophying. Just earlier, i had my dinner at 11.30pm. It was a bowl of unhealthy fishball noodles (dry). You know, those kind that have a lot of vinegar, oil and MSG. I was feeling faint in the cab before that and had decided - without nary a thought - i shall have the fishball noodles at the kopitiam. Then when i reached home, which was nearly midnight, i felt bloated and wanted to puke. I'm pathetic, i know.
In any case, as if to counter the toxins that have effortlessly accumulated inside my body, I have taken to eating fruits in the morning. Quite regularly, i must say. I used to have appetite for food like fried bee hoon and half-boiled eggs in the morning. But some time ago - i think after i had recovered from the last major illness - the appetite for such Singaporean-styled breakfast started waning. I don't have much appetite in the morning. That's when i switched to eating fruits. I buy cut-fruits from the food court below my workplace.
It's a good habit to eat fruits in the morning, Shawn told me one day. Taking fruits in the morning aids in hydrating our body efficiently, not to mention the benefits with regard to one's bowel movement. So, at least i was doing something right. I guess one reason why my body hasn't succumbed to the bugs is because i've been eating fruits daily, in the morning! Now i only need to get my exercise routine back - but only after two more weeks, when THE event is over. I'm eagerly awaiting that day.
In any case, as if to counter the toxins that have effortlessly accumulated inside my body, I have taken to eating fruits in the morning. Quite regularly, i must say. I used to have appetite for food like fried bee hoon and half-boiled eggs in the morning. But some time ago - i think after i had recovered from the last major illness - the appetite for such Singaporean-styled breakfast started waning. I don't have much appetite in the morning. That's when i switched to eating fruits. I buy cut-fruits from the food court below my workplace.
It's a good habit to eat fruits in the morning, Shawn told me one day. Taking fruits in the morning aids in hydrating our body efficiently, not to mention the benefits with regard to one's bowel movement. So, at least i was doing something right. I guess one reason why my body hasn't succumbed to the bugs is because i've been eating fruits daily, in the morning! Now i only need to get my exercise routine back - but only after two more weeks, when THE event is over. I'm eagerly awaiting that day.
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Wunderful Wkend
This weekend, i did absolutely nothing productive except eat, sleep and watch TV.
And it was absolutely wonderful.
No grudging trudging back to office; no sense of burden weighing on my shoulders; and no obligation to wake up early.
And it was absolutely wonderful.
No grudging trudging back to office; no sense of burden weighing on my shoulders; and no obligation to wake up early.
unexpected in life
Just a few days back, yet another Singaporean succumbed to the capricious, nasty blows of Nature - he was struck dead by a falling tree branch.
I remember it was just recently that a woman got killed by a falling tree branch while two men died in similar circumstances while trekking at Mount Ophir in Malaysia.
During a car journey last weekend, I commented on the tragedy of those incidents (that was before the latest incident occurred). I wondered whether falling branches/trees might now factor into risk assessment in SAF training. After all, many soldiers do spend a fair amount of time in the jungles. Sometimes for an entire day, they could be camping out in the midst of thickly-vegetated areas which have many trees.
It was then that K, who was giving Kenneth and I a lift home, said something that really struck me: 'You know what this means? It means their (the victims') time is up.'
He said it in all solemnity, without any disrespect or being rude. I was struck by his words because i thought they contained a sense of the truth quite simply.
The truth is that those people were unfortunately killed by a falling tree or tree branch. The truth is also that they happened to be at a particular spot at a specific time when a tree branch had to break and strike them where they were. It's all very unexpected, almost incredulous, but things nevertheless occurred that way.
I am not a religious person, but i suppose someone religious would agree with K's words in a religious sense.
To me, I regard K's words in a somewhat philosophical way. There comes a point in life when our time would be up; indeed, it's only a matter of when.
But when that time comes, i like to think that many of us would have had time to be mentally prepared, if not already resigned to what is the inevitability of Life. But for those whose life had come to an abrupt stop, it is exactly because they had passed on ahead of their time that it seemed abtly, if cruelly, true that their time is up - too soon, too unexpectedly, with no sense of forewarning to the loved ones left behind.
I remember it was just recently that a woman got killed by a falling tree branch while two men died in similar circumstances while trekking at Mount Ophir in Malaysia.
During a car journey last weekend, I commented on the tragedy of those incidents (that was before the latest incident occurred). I wondered whether falling branches/trees might now factor into risk assessment in SAF training. After all, many soldiers do spend a fair amount of time in the jungles. Sometimes for an entire day, they could be camping out in the midst of thickly-vegetated areas which have many trees.
It was then that K, who was giving Kenneth and I a lift home, said something that really struck me: 'You know what this means? It means their (the victims') time is up.'
He said it in all solemnity, without any disrespect or being rude. I was struck by his words because i thought they contained a sense of the truth quite simply.
The truth is that those people were unfortunately killed by a falling tree or tree branch. The truth is also that they happened to be at a particular spot at a specific time when a tree branch had to break and strike them where they were. It's all very unexpected, almost incredulous, but things nevertheless occurred that way.
I am not a religious person, but i suppose someone religious would agree with K's words in a religious sense.
To me, I regard K's words in a somewhat philosophical way. There comes a point in life when our time would be up; indeed, it's only a matter of when.
But when that time comes, i like to think that many of us would have had time to be mentally prepared, if not already resigned to what is the inevitability of Life. But for those whose life had come to an abrupt stop, it is exactly because they had passed on ahead of their time that it seemed abtly, if cruelly, true that their time is up - too soon, too unexpectedly, with no sense of forewarning to the loved ones left behind.
GSS comes to the heartland
The Great Singapore Sale is everywhere. Or should i say everyone seemed to have latched onto the GSS bandwagon?
I went to the market-place this morning only to find the GSS poster plastered all over. There was even a marquee, albeit a small one, which appears to serve as a gift-exchange station for 'shoppers'. I walked past and momentarily caught the words 'sure-win' on a banner hung inside the marquee. Ah, the usual gimmicks.
Talk about the GSS going into the heartlands. Well, it was right before my eyes. But i wonder what sort of things are on sale. At the market-place, there are mainly standalone provision shops, including the ubiqutous Watson's, Guardian and what have you, which sell mostly daily necessities. Maybe the prices of the goods have been reduced a little, but these discounts do not quite gel with the GSS image that i have in mind. I am talking about luxury items, like clothes, watches, sneakers, accessories - things which are galore in downtown Orchard Road, you know.
In any case, without the GSS, there is always an air of excitement at the market-place. Everny weekend without fail, nearby and faraway residents descend here to enjoy good hawker food. Without the GSS branding, the shops would do just as well, i reckon, since the customers are their usual patrons. It's quite unlikely you'd attract people who do not live in the vicinity.
I went to the market-place this morning only to find the GSS poster plastered all over. There was even a marquee, albeit a small one, which appears to serve as a gift-exchange station for 'shoppers'. I walked past and momentarily caught the words 'sure-win' on a banner hung inside the marquee. Ah, the usual gimmicks.
Talk about the GSS going into the heartlands. Well, it was right before my eyes. But i wonder what sort of things are on sale. At the market-place, there are mainly standalone provision shops, including the ubiqutous Watson's, Guardian and what have you, which sell mostly daily necessities. Maybe the prices of the goods have been reduced a little, but these discounts do not quite gel with the GSS image that i have in mind. I am talking about luxury items, like clothes, watches, sneakers, accessories - things which are galore in downtown Orchard Road, you know.
In any case, without the GSS, there is always an air of excitement at the market-place. Everny weekend without fail, nearby and faraway residents descend here to enjoy good hawker food. Without the GSS branding, the shops would do just as well, i reckon, since the customers are their usual patrons. It's quite unlikely you'd attract people who do not live in the vicinity.
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Tissue paper from afar
Two weekends ago, LS and I had dinner/supper at Gluttons' Bay after catching a theatre production at the Esplanade.
We were tucking into our char kway teow and hokkien mee (whose standard is not always consistent, in our opinion) when a guy appeared out of nowhere at our table. He looked our age, dressed like us - in t-shirt and jeans, that is.
Actually, i can't remember what he looks like. What i do remember is his unexpected request: 'Can i have a piece of tissue paper from you please?' Perfectly normal, nothing funny, you say. I agree, except that this guy wasn't seated next to us; he was seated faraway.
I admit i was surprised because i didn't notice him coming. But when he walked away and did not stop until he returned to his seat which was a good couple of tables away from us in the middle section (we were seated at the far end), i became curiously puzzled. LS and I started laughing and wondered why the hell did the guy approached us for just a piece of tissue paper instead of asking other patrons who were nearby his table. It just didn't seem very logical.
We could only guess that since my packet of tissue paper was (visible) on the table, he must have walked around to spot someone who definitely had tissue paper with him before venturing his request.
As i told LS, this must count as one of the 101 bizzare incidents in the year 2007 for me. She chuckled, and we continued digging into our food, still amazed at the unexpected request from a faraway 'neighbour'.
We were tucking into our char kway teow and hokkien mee (whose standard is not always consistent, in our opinion) when a guy appeared out of nowhere at our table. He looked our age, dressed like us - in t-shirt and jeans, that is.
Actually, i can't remember what he looks like. What i do remember is his unexpected request: 'Can i have a piece of tissue paper from you please?' Perfectly normal, nothing funny, you say. I agree, except that this guy wasn't seated next to us; he was seated faraway.
I admit i was surprised because i didn't notice him coming. But when he walked away and did not stop until he returned to his seat which was a good couple of tables away from us in the middle section (we were seated at the far end), i became curiously puzzled. LS and I started laughing and wondered why the hell did the guy approached us for just a piece of tissue paper instead of asking other patrons who were nearby his table. It just didn't seem very logical.
We could only guess that since my packet of tissue paper was (visible) on the table, he must have walked around to spot someone who definitely had tissue paper with him before venturing his request.
As i told LS, this must count as one of the 101 bizzare incidents in the year 2007 for me. She chuckled, and we continued digging into our food, still amazed at the unexpected request from a faraway 'neighbour'.
Crowded out
When it was reported some time ago that Spore is looking to acheiving 6.5million population in the future, i was sceptical and dismayed by the target our leaders seemed to have set. Yes, the infrastructure could be developed further, but i am not one convinced by hard facts. I only have to take the train everyday, try to get a movie ticket or walk in town to feel the overbearing number of people around sharing the same, limited space with me. And then i wonder how things could get any better as the population (with a larger proportion of foreigners) grows. Do our leaders, national planners and the like take public transport and dine at places where ordinary folk could only afford?
Each time i go to Johore I could literally feel the immense difference. I know the pasture always seems greener on the other side - this i readily concede, for when i find myself having to endure incredibly stinky toilets in Msia, I would think of the clean toilets in Spore. That's double standard, to be sure. But it doesn't stop me from appreciating the greener pasture - literally - of which our neighbour has abundance. Such joy it is to see - and feel - only unobstructed verdant landscapes that seem to have no end! Yet it is not a sense of overflowing enthusiasm and vibrant joy that one feels but rather, it's a state of being unaffected by negative vibes of overcrowding.
Each time i go to Johore I could literally feel the immense difference. I know the pasture always seems greener on the other side - this i readily concede, for when i find myself having to endure incredibly stinky toilets in Msia, I would think of the clean toilets in Spore. That's double standard, to be sure. But it doesn't stop me from appreciating the greener pasture - literally - of which our neighbour has abundance. Such joy it is to see - and feel - only unobstructed verdant landscapes that seem to have no end! Yet it is not a sense of overflowing enthusiasm and vibrant joy that one feels but rather, it's a state of being unaffected by negative vibes of overcrowding.
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Of ippt and wedding
Took my ippt today, and i am happy with my results. In fact, i surprised myself by completing the 2.4km run in a shorter time compared to last year - and i had thought i would have done worse this year! Anyway, my timing was good enough, in my opinion, for a reservist man who doesn't run regularly. In order not to have to do my ippt in the coming in-camp, i had to 'persuade' myself to jog/run in preparation for today's ippt. Now that it's over, i have about a year's time to rot before i start to train for the next ippt.
I took my ippt with KC, who is going to shed his bachelor status in two week's time. He took the opportunity to pass me his wedding invitation card, which has a simple yet classy appearance. There's a photo of him and his wife-to-be inside the card. Which makes me wonder if it is de rigeur to include a photo of the bride and bridegroom in a wedding invitation card these days.
And so I found out more about his invitation, offered my assistance if he so needs. We also talked about work, how it's such a chore to have to do something which we don't enjoy. Anyway, he wasn't terribly excited about his wedding; in fact, he seemed tired, and besides, he did say that he can't wait for it to be over. Wedding's supposed to be a joyous occasion isn't it? But hearing from him, i think there are things beyond his control that made the affair less happy than it should have been. So he's not to be blamed after all.
I told him quite simply, that if and when i hold my wedding, it would be a simple affair that involves close friends, held in a cozy environment, free from all the shackles of tradition and familial obligations. It's going to be MY wedding, you know, not anyone else's.
I took my ippt with KC, who is going to shed his bachelor status in two week's time. He took the opportunity to pass me his wedding invitation card, which has a simple yet classy appearance. There's a photo of him and his wife-to-be inside the card. Which makes me wonder if it is de rigeur to include a photo of the bride and bridegroom in a wedding invitation card these days.
And so I found out more about his invitation, offered my assistance if he so needs. We also talked about work, how it's such a chore to have to do something which we don't enjoy. Anyway, he wasn't terribly excited about his wedding; in fact, he seemed tired, and besides, he did say that he can't wait for it to be over. Wedding's supposed to be a joyous occasion isn't it? But hearing from him, i think there are things beyond his control that made the affair less happy than it should have been. So he's not to be blamed after all.
I told him quite simply, that if and when i hold my wedding, it would be a simple affair that involves close friends, held in a cozy environment, free from all the shackles of tradition and familial obligations. It's going to be MY wedding, you know, not anyone else's.
Pay matters.
Yesterday in the ST it was reported that fresh grads joining the civil service are going to get higher starting salaries. Today, comparing our situation with the civil service, my colleagues and I were lamenting about our renumeration viz-a-viz the amount of work we had to do.
Not a very good sign, I must say.
Not a very good sign, I must say.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Depreciation and Appreciation
We were at a petrol kiosk refueling the car. That's when I spotted ZM, an ex-secondary schoolmate of ours, who was in front of our car topping up petrol.
Adr called out his name, whereupon ZM expressed surprise and came over to say hi. Meanwhile, LS and I had stayed inside the car. I don't know ZM personally, so only Adr and LS did the talking.
"My, he has depreciated," LS remarked almost matter-of-factly after ZM left. "He was actually one of the better looking guys when we were in primary school."
"Depreciated. Wah, must you use this term on him?" Adr replied as he started the engine.
I was amused and can't help but ask, "So have we depreciated also?"
She chuckled before saying, "No, you guys have appreciated."
I must say that sounds positively reassuring.
Adr called out his name, whereupon ZM expressed surprise and came over to say hi. Meanwhile, LS and I had stayed inside the car. I don't know ZM personally, so only Adr and LS did the talking.
"My, he has depreciated," LS remarked almost matter-of-factly after ZM left. "He was actually one of the better looking guys when we were in primary school."
"Depreciated. Wah, must you use this term on him?" Adr replied as he started the engine.
I was amused and can't help but ask, "So have we depreciated also?"
She chuckled before saying, "No, you guys have appreciated."
I must say that sounds positively reassuring.
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